Cheating On Your Spouse - Does It Make Your Marriage Better?

Is cheating on your spouse wrong if it makes you a happier person? Well, if I'm a happier person then I'll probably be a better spouse. If I'm a better spouse then I'll most likely be a better friend, neighbor and co-worker. dilmil.co So cheating is good right? Is that all it takes for some folks to convince themselves that cheating on their spouse is a good thing?

 

I know I just confused you, right? You probably are thinking that no one could be that illogical in viewing cheating that way. You are wrong if that's what you are thinking. It might take a little more self convincing but not much more. Cheating on your spouse is not really that complex. It's a pretty simple process that goes as follows;

 

"The eyes see, the mind covets, the heart lusts and the affair begins"

 

So what's so wrong about having a little fun outside of your marriage? I'm not one to judge others but listed below dilmil are a few reasons why I believe having an affair is a bad idea.

 

• Breaks up marriages and families

 

• Gets people physically and emotionally hurt

 

• Causes folks to separate from their kids

 

• Homes are lost

 

• Lives are turned upside down

 

• Health deteriorates

 

• Jobs are lost

 

• Finances are depleted

 

• Pain is sometimes overwhelming

 

• Leads to divorce

 

• Causes children to grow up in a single parent home

 

• Sexually transmitted diseases

 

Cheating on your spouse does have a few positive outcomes. For one, you might feel like an empty void has been filled in your life by having an affair. However, the guilt is so great at times that it's dilmil.co review hard to imagine really feeling joyous while cheating on your spouse. The second thing I'm positive about is that you will regret having an affair when the dust settles and all the cards are on the table.

 

You might find some spouses who believe that being with others intimately keeps them satisfied and thus it reduces the disappointment they have with their spouse. That's incorrect thinking in my opinion. If you are having a problem with your car, you can go use your neighbor's car but it won't fix your car. The same applies to your marriage intimacy. If you simply ignore your spouse and find intimacy with someone else your marriage will most likely end. Eventually your spouse will find intimacy in someone else's arms and you will no longer see the need to stay together.

 

I understand the reason why spouses cheat. Human beings were created with curiosity and a desire to get what we want. From a very young age, toddlers make demands and only find peace and happiness when they get what they want.

 

Spouses are for the most part, overgrown kids. They want what they have and also want what they don't have. Cheating is something that all spouses are capable of doing. Fortunately not everyone cheats on their spouse.

 

If cheating on your spouse has been on your mind or in your heart, just say no. If your eyes are causing you to be tempted, redirect your focus. If you are finding yourself thinking about a particular individual all the time, and the individual is not your spouse, find another image to dwell on. Needless to say if you are lusting for someone you need to be extremely careful and make sure you don't put yourself in an alone situation with the person you have feelings for. You will not be strong enough to resist the temptation to cheat.